Future Wedding Plans

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When I have nothing to do, I always open my Pinterest account because it always gives me ideas especially in some creative stuffs. Im always asking my self why I am always fascinated browsing in Wedding ideas and pin some wedding related pictures and planning my wedding. Here's the catch, I dont have a partner and I am not in a relationship right now. Maybe I am crazy that I am planning things that not is not yet happening. I dont think that I am normal, but i love it. Everything I am looking at the wedding gowns I went crazy. Finding unique wedding ideas makes me happy. 

Maybe you think that I take marriage for granted, its not, but I think browsing some wedding stuffs is a girl thing. I know that when you invited to go to wedding ceremony, you see yourself wearing that beautiful gown and your prince charming is waiting for you and he is soo handsome wearing that suit that really suits him. Its every women's dream to get married to the man that they love and to have a simple but unforgetable wedding is a plus. If you want to have a grand wedding go for it girl! It is your day and to your other half, but remember what important is your marriage.

Every wedding has its own motifs or themes. Some refers a vintage, gothic, modern, fairy tale and etc. I refer a simple yet vintage- gypsyish wedding theme, because I know its unique and I want to be different. I don't want to get married, I have many things to do like chasing my dreams. Well that is my plan I don't know if that would happen. Remember, I haven't found my other half yet.

Here are some photos that I pinned In my Pinterest account:

( wedding gowns ideas.. photos from pinterest/ internet )

( bridesmaid gowns inspiration.. photo from pinterest/ internet )

( wedding bouquets inspiration.. photo from pinterest/ internet )

 ( wedding invitations inspiration.. photo from the pinterest/ internet )

love,

shebang

#ParokyaniKazeee

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Last Saturday night me and my brother went to the Parokya ni Edgar and Kamikazee Concert here in our place. Soo the concert venue is very close to our house, we grab the opportunity to watch and to have fun. These bands are our favorite bands soo we didn't hesitate to buy tickets so that we can see them live singing their songs. We love their songs very much because it really touch your hearts and  entertains you.

Here are some pictures but sorry for the low quality because I am only using my phone.

 ( me having my selfie duties :D )

my love for Messi...

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I am very happy that favorite teams Germany and Argentina are in the World Cup Finals ( and I support Spain but sadly, they lost in the first round). Im kinda confused who I am going to support but my heart tells me to support Argentina because for the love for Leo Messi.

Personally, I am not impressed on Leo Messi's performance in the competition its kinda different in his performance in the FC Barcelona. Maybe because he is pressured becuase the world has a big expectations on him. He is one of the best footballer in the world today. Most of the time the team depends on him because he is Leo Messi. But, even if I am not that impressed (coz i have high expectations on him) he still managed to play as best as he could. He is the best captain, because he leads the team very well and it really shows in every games. He still managed to be a great player, all the teams that they played against had a hard time to goal  because the team defense was very tight. But he still scored in the previous games, made assists, made some defense that leads the Argentinians to the finals game against Germany. They won all the games before they face the Germans, still they proved to the world that they are a team.

In the last match of the World Cup last night both teams and all players are all pressured coz the world are all watching them. The defense was too tight, all the ball possessions are equal, they really want to score a goal but until the end of the ninety minutes still no goal, until the extra time was given and Mario Gotze scored a goal. Happy for Germany because they won the World Cup I also feel that they will win the competetion. For me, Germany team played very well than Argentina but I support Argentina.

When  the Germans won I feel really sad for the Argentinians, I am with them all the way from day one ( and also Spain ) especially for Leo Messi. I want him to win, I want him to raise the trophy, I want him to show the world that he made it, I want him to say that he won the world cup but he didnt. I was also sad because of that defeat there are many criticisms that he received. He doesn't deserve this, and also that award that he received lots of people said that he doesn't deserve this, I mean look at the statistics he is one of the best players in the competition, look the way the he played still it was impressive even if his performance is not that good. Because of that defeat the world doubted him being the best player.

Remember:  failures inspires winners, I know this defeat will inspire and motivates Leo Messi for being the best as he could. I know this is his lowest time ever because he feels he failed his compatriots. 

love,

shebang

Jealousy and Insecurity

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Is there a time in your life that you are jealous of someone or something and you cant help it? No matter how you tell to your self that it is not right, and still you are jealous or insecure to them. I dont know why, and i know that it is not good.

Sometimes I feel that too, i told myself not to feel that but i feel it, i think there is a problem in me. I am happy to anyone that feels so blessed, lucky or happy in what they have. Especially when they post something in Facebook with feeling blessed post. But I cant help it but i say to my self that I hope I can feel what they are feeling too. I feel that  jealousy or insecurity but I  forget it easily. I just move on. Be happy on what they have because they deserve it. Sometimes I take it as inspiration in order for me to be happy in what I have in the future. 
Some people when they feel that jealousy or insecurity they take it personally and it will come to a point that they do something bad to others. They hold grudge and they do a bad thing in order for them to be happy. They want to see that certain person will suffer because they don't want to see them happy. Do you think when you hold grudge to others and doing something bad to others will make you happy forever? You will say yes, coz you have to defend yourself, but that happiness is just temporary, it will fade away, you have a hard time to sleep at night. You will think something is missing. Just because you feel jealous or you feel insecure your life is in chaos, you want everything is not in order because you now live in a messy life.

To feel jealous or insecure it is normal to feel that, you are human, you are not perfect. BUT  dont hold a grudge, just move on be happy on what they have, if you cant help it to feel that just pray and be positive coz life is all about positivity.  Just focus on yourself how to be productive, make  yourself happy you deserve it.

love,

shebang

Thinking Memories

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Is there an event or memories that you want to happen again or to repeat it a hundred times and wished that it will never end? Want that moment to cherish it forever with your the other half? or is it me daydreaming cherishing those memories with someone? well? well.. well.. well

There are times that we think some things happens in the past especially the happy ones, the embarrassing ones, and the sad ones, but then again we want to think the happy times. 

Every one of us wants to be happy and thinking happy thoughts are one of them especially what happened in the yesterday, the other day, from the last week or from the last year. It makes us motivated from what are we doing, it makes us to be positive view or having a good vibes. Happy thoughts makes us in love, we always see beautiful things around us even if the weather is gloomy still that weather is a beautiful one because you are happy. You can make good things because you see beauty in helping others it makes you wonderful. Because of that beautiful memories or happy thoughts you see beauty in something and everything.

Also, we cant help to think again all the embarrassing moments that what we've done, as in OMG!! Yeahh!! every time I think of something or everything what I do, It always comes in my mind all the "OMG" things that I did and for me it was the hilarious and embarrassing moments that I don't want to happen again. When I remember those things I cant help to laugh about and call myself stupid.

We cant help but to think all the sad that happened in our life especially all the failures that we've done from the past. But in those failures and mistake that we've done we learn a new lessons to be better person and we can share all the sad happenings in our life to others and it can inspire them.

We reminisce things because we want to re think things what happened to the past and it is up to us how to handle them. Remember these are all memories there are possibilities that it will repeat again or it will remain memories forever.


love,

shebang

My World Cup Thoughts

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Days from now is the final game of the FIFA World Cup in Brazil. Brazil is always in the news because of this big sporting event. The world is crazy about it, especially me. From Asia to America people talked about it. It is hard for us Asians to watch the games because of the timezone difference because of that i had sleepless nights but it is super fine with me because for the love of sports. 

My world cup experience so far is the best, even if im in the other parts of the world still I feel the world cup fever. I feel the world cup fever because it is all over the news they always feature some world cup news. Every time i watch the game i feel the enjoyment of the fans the love for the game. The players are all sensational especially my teams Spain, Germany and Argentina. I feel their determination to the game, the hard work, the discipline and the love for the game. Its all about winning. Among thirty two teams there will be one team hail as the world champions. Lets find out.

In the thirty-two teams i support three teams they are: Spain ( they are out in the competition early), Argentina and Germany ( they are in semi-finals).

• Its very heartbreaking for me to watch Spain is out in the world cup, I know you heard in the news that they are lost against Netherlands and Chile. It is very disappointing to see because they have the best players and also they are the defending champions, well this world cup is full of surprises and Spain is out of the match is one of them.

• Aside from the Argentinians, many football fans are supporting Argentina because of Leo Messi. He is the best footballer today, seeing him play is like taadddaaaa!! heaven!!! They are now in the semi finals, Argentina proves that this team is not all about Leo Messi is all about the whole team playing together as one.

• Another world cup favorites is Germany, the German players are the powerhouse players in Europe. They know how to play the game not like the any teams. They know how to analyse their opponents. 

• The host country Brazil, maaann they have also the best players, the best coach, and the crowd. Neymar being the star player of the team ended his world cup journey because of the injury. Although they have the home court advantage they prove that they know how to play game very well. 

Football fans from around the world are in Brazil right now to support their teams and to see their football players. They are soo lucky, me I just watch the games on tv and always sleepy because the match is always in dawn, well #asianproblems. All of the venues of the matches are all full Im amazed every time I watched because they are all united to cheer their team no matter what. 
Their are a lot of highlights and sidelights in this sporting event which made the world cup a colorful one. This is on the news right now and it will not be forgotten to us football fans.

love 

shebang,

Sports Thoughts...

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Everyone of us have different likes and wants, some likes fashion, entertainment, travelling and others, me i like and love sports. 

Sports really give me happiness, I cant explain why I do love sports. I cant explain my happiness every time I watch a game and I cant sleep well when my team lose.I have this fascination of these sports because of the will of every players to win and to make their fans happy. It gives the feel of enjoyment, the feel of nervousness, every time your team will play.The feeling that you want to cheer your team, you want to yell the opponent in order the opposing team to lose, you cant explain it, every fans will say it.

Sports is not a girl thing its a boy thing. Some people amazed at me when they know that i love sports in general. Majority, men loves sports. Actually men will exchange everything for the sake of sports. Yeahh!! even you!! Please girls don't call your boyfriend every time they watch a NBA game or a World Series because obviously they will ignore you. Girls don't disturb your boyfriend every time they will play NBA 2K14 or FIFA 14 because they will not hit the pause button just to entertain you, just give them a me time. HAHAHA!!  

There are a lot of sports out there but the type of sports that I really like are basketball, football and tennis. I don't play (coz im too old to play) but I watch and follow these sports. The information it gives is priceless plus it is an edge for us girls to know these stuffs because it is not a girl thing its a man thing. 

 These sports are really interesting and the players are very unpredictable ( plus the good looking players are like heaven... yeahh heaven..) They really give their hundred percent every time they will play and you can really say that they really love their job. Being in the sporting world is not an easy job you have to work hard, train hard in order for you to win and also you have a good team that work hard together. Having a discipline to yourself and determination will lead you to be a good player and it will made you to lead your team to be a great one. In the sporting world is all about winning or if not you will be sacked off. I think, being an athlete is a best job ever because you do what you love plus you are getting paid for it. The bad thing of an athlete is getting injured its a bad thing ever, its terrible. It is heartbreaking to see especially your favorite player is injured ohhh maaannn!! its sad!!

For the love for something people will do anything just to make it happen just like for the love of sports. For the love of sports, the players and the fans will do anything just to make their team wins (except to cheat or to take drugs its a no no..) because life is all about love and happiness..

love,

shebang

Dear Readers :)

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dear readers ( if i have one )

im very sorry for being inactive for the past few weeks because my brain was inactive or for having a bloggers block (as what they say and i dont consider myself as blogger). One of the reasons,  I dont know what to write or a topic to write I hope you understand.

i think you noticed that my post are short because of my inactive brain.. im sorry.. i hope you learn something about my posts..

I will try my best to write as many as I can but if you want to suggest a topic you can ask me, I am very happy if  you readers will suggest. 

happy reading everyone  :) 

love :)

shebang

Style Perspective

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Some of us loves fashion. Everyone of us has a style. Style represents us who we are and what we are. We always want to look good in our everyday life, wherever we are and whatever we do. That is why we have different styles because we want to look unique, different and glamorous.

In this computer age, we have a lot of  fashion inspirations that we've idolize. these fashion inspirations can influence us to look glamorous but in a simple way. We dont need to have a designer or branded clothes just to look beautiful, glamorous, awesome etc. but it is all about how you wear it.  Confidence is the key! if you are confident on what you are wearing even it is not expensive, you can make it look like one because you are confident. 


Style is not all about the clothes what you are wearing it includes the confidence, good grooming and hygiene. Confidence, we all have it but we are not using it wisely. To have that confidence in you first, you have to believe in your self no matter what. Don't mind the people who doesn't believe in you, because you yourself believes that you can do things in your own. Good grooming, yeah you wear beautiful clothes, you wear expensive stilettos but you look haggard, still it doesn't count. You have to look presentable to everyone so that  people will respect you. it doesn't mean that you have to put a heavy make up, having that gorgeous hair do, but it is all about how you look simple yet dignified. lastly hygiene, it is very important to be hygienic, you have to be clean in whatever you do and wherever you are. it is all about being responsible on how you take care of yourself, you have to look beautiful but being not smelly is a must.

Having your own style is very important because, it defines you who and what you are. but the important is your personality you have to be good to everyone, style and fashion is nothing if your personality is stinky one.

love, 

shebang

Random Thoughts

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Everyday of our lives we do our best not to commit mistakes. We always do our best to be the best to everyone.We are not perfect, but everyone wants to be perfect. The world is not returning the favor of you being perfect. We all want to be famous, but then again the world dont want you to be seen in television or making a speech in front of a lot of people. You want to get rich but the truth is whatever you do you always fail.

We commit mistakes, it is just normal because you are a human being living in this beautiful world. You are not perfect because you commit mistakes. We commit mistakes because we dont know what we are going to do or we know what we are going to do but you are afraid to do it.

 We commit mistakes because we dont know that we are committing mistakes.

You did something bad to someone and you dont know what you are going to do. You hurt someone's feelings and it takes a sincere sorry and to promise not to do it again or promise to make it up to you.

You commit mistakes but those mistakes that you did made a better person than yesterday. It will made you who and what you are. 

love,

shebang